How to Talk to Skeptical Friends About Things that Matter by Sam Chan Introduction For the Christmas break, I watched Bumblebee (2018), which is a fun installment in the Transformers franchise. In the final scene, after good has triumphed over evil, the potential boyfriend, Memo (Jorge Lendeborg Jr.), tries to hold the hand of the female hero, Charlie (Hailee Steinfeld). But Charlie smiles and brushes Memo’s hand away. She says something like, “No. Not ready.” It’s a nice way to end the movie because we have the unresolved tension between Charlie and Memo. Will they become girlfriend and boyfriend? At this stage, we won’t know. But at the same time, it shows the dilemma that Memo faces. Right now he’s stuck in the dreaded Friendzone. From here, if he over-plays his romantic intentions, he will drive her away. But if he under-plays his romantic intentions, he will miss out on the opportunity to date her. Maybe she would’ve loved to […]